School vacation season is almost here and my family, like many families, is so excited to welcome in the holidays and spend some extra time together. Although we will be doing our fair share of relaxing, I do not want us to fall into the boredom rut - where we all get bored, so we just sit in front of the television for hours and binge watch a new show, or get sucked into the newest video game.
This is a great way to waste a perfect day that could have been filled with so much more. So how do we all avoid this rut and keep our kids engaged during their time away from school? Better yet, how do we keep our kids engaged and learning without them knowing it?
Two of my boys are ages six and my youngest son is 10 months old. My 10-month-old is not quite into screen time, but my older two love it. I am the one who purchased these things for my kids, but I feel as though I am constantly saying no to them when they ask, “Hey mom can we watch T.V. while we eat breakfast?” or “Hey mom, can I play on your phone?”
This leads to bummed out kids and a guilty feeling mom. If your family is anything like mine, there is a way to keep our little ones engaged in activities that will bring your family together and cut out the screen time.
I have found that less can sometimes be more. Try for one thing per day where you have a planned activity. The activity can be as simple as playing a board game or as intricate as reading a story and doing activities that correlate to the story. Both things provide an opportunity to keep your kids’ brains firing. Having only one planned activity leaves room for imagination. You will be very surprised what will come out of four pieces of wood and some army figurines.
I have found that when learning comes from play, the lessons stick. At our house, we love to do science experiments with water, baking soda, food coloring and vinegar. My kids get to mix any of the things together and find out the cause and effect while getting messy. Do this while you are cooking dinner and the conversations and excitement will overflow.
I am constantly reminding myself to be open to things that are unplanned and to just listen. My kids have great ideas to share and something great always comes from them, if I am willing to listen and not rush.
A perfect example of this I have experienced with my four-year-old son. I was working on preschool material with him and he was getting visibly bored. He found a tape measure on the table and asked if he could go “measure.” Instead of saying no, I said sure and gave him a pad of paper and a pencil. He went around our house for 20 minutes measuring everything and writing down the measurements. It was a great unplanned, unexpected math activity that we talked and laughed about all day. Plus, he got practice on how to safely use a tape measure.
A good book with a blanket and pillow is always a good option, too. Cuddle up as a family and take turns reading or just sit together reading solo.
If your kids learn better from sitting down to a worksheet, Harriman recommends the following websites, Education.com, kidzone.com, Scholastic.com, and k5learning.com, all of which offer free printable worksheets. I use Education.com regularly and really enjoy this website. Without a subscription, you can download and print up to seven worksheets per month.
Whatever you decide to do, enjoy your time together. Keep a journal so you and your family can remember all of the fun you had during your school vacations.
Time passes too quickly to let ourselves get sucked into too much screen time when the more valuable and important things are found in the people that surround us. Happy Holidays.