Even though the calendar might still say
summer, the shelves of nearby stores that are loaded with pencils, pens,
writing paper, and backpacks say otherwise. For some, school has already begun;
whereas, for others, the day after Labor Day starts the academic year.
Whether one has already started school
or is waiting for September 2nd, chances are that there is a myriad
of emotions that goes along with shopping. Children who are entering school for
the first time may struggle with feelings that go from wanting to be with friends
and have fun to experiencing the proverbial stomach ache as the time draws
closer to boarding the bus. Then too, are students who are going off to college.
While some may see the time as an opportunity for growth and grown-up
experiences, others may see it as being quite traumatic.
Parents and teachers are not exempt from
back to school jitters. Parents, who want to see their children grow and learn,
may still worry about them and how they will get along. Teachers also may
experience anxiety and apprehension as to what the new year will bring. For
all, expectations of what the first days will be like can be equivalent to a
double-edged sword with apprehension on one side and excitement on the other.
Some things to consider when back-to-school
worries occur are that these feelings are normal and that by the second or
third week into the semester, for the most part things will have fallen into
place. However, if students are still having problems with adjusting,
communication is key to understanding their fears and worries. Listening to
what they have to say and offering suggestions may help. Also, most schools and
colleges have counselors who are able to help students and families who may be
having a difficult time adjusting.
Whether it is seeing a youngster off for
the first day of school or helping a son or daughter move into dorms, parents who
are having a hard time with an “empty nest” will fare better if they have a
good support system in place so they can air their feelings and concerns. Getting
together with other parents may help as well.
Yet, another way that I suggest that may
aid with the growing pains parents have to face is for them to take a class in
something they might like such as photography, painting, canoeing, etc. Being
able to get into the educational field helps with understanding it and also
gives parents and students something in common to talk about.
Whether one is a parent, student, or
teacher, school days do not have to be school daze. There are ways to lessen
the stress and anxiety that comes with it. Being able to concentrate on the
positive aspects, such as greeting new experiences, will help. Also remembering
that summer is just nine months away is something to look forward to.
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